QuestionsCategory: Money Mattersinlaws-going-through-my-belongings
Sal asked 3 months ago

Aslam alaykum I am living with my inlaws and every time I find iwhen my husband and I go out that his parents go into our bedroom and go through our belongings, I notice things are not in same place as I left them when I once asked my mother in law if anyone went into the bedroom she got very upset snd said no what there is something missing. Snd because they speak Arabic which I don’t speak she started saying stuff in Arabic I couldn’t understand what she was saying . This isn’t the first time I noticed someone had gone into my bedroom snd gone through my belongings it’s happened many times.  I have spoken to my husband about this numerous times that I don’t like someone going through my stuff they even open my mail and if I order something they will try open it to see what’s in it or will give it to me and ask what I ordered and stand there waiting for me to open it so they can see, this is too much invading my space snd privacy. I told my husband so can’t live like this snd we need to go rent a place we had an apartment but his father put pressure on my husband to sell it snd because his father did line of credit because my husband couldn’t get mortgage snd o was new to country had no credit score so couldn’t get mortgage  but we put down payment and we’re paying the mortgage in fact first year I was only working and paying mortgage my husband  was not working, when we sold property because it was in his father name cause of line of credit when we sold the property his father kept all the sale money in his bank account and did not give it to us. it’s our money but when I ask my husband that we need our money snd he needs to ask his father he is reluctant to ask that his father might get upset but upset about what it’s our money please advise on this matter also.  JazakAllah Khair        please advise me what I should do