I am in a state of confusion for nine years!! I feel I have been abused by my mother. I have physical disability for which my mom feels bad / ashamed in society as she is a very competitive and perfectionist women. Very late I understood the reason for her harsh attitude. I have lost the trust in her. I am well do and can afford her servants and good housing. But I don’t like to stay with her as she has been a part of eroding my confidence. Can I provide her with suitable place and servants and opt for not living with her? Please advise.